Wedding Guest Jewelry — What to Wear and What to Skip
As a wedding guest, you want jewelry that feels festive but leaves the spotlight to the bride. The simplest rule of thumb: one statement piece (usually earrings with a cubic zirconia drop or sparkly huggies), gold or silver to match the colour of your dress, and no all-white or full pearl set. The more formal the dress code, the more sparkle you can wear. Below you will find what works for every dress code, dress colour and hairstyle, plus what to wear to a winter wedding around the holidays.
The short answer
How to choose jewelry as a wedding guest:
- One statement: eye-catching earrings or a sparkling necklace, and keep the rest quiet.
- Not too bridal: skip the all-white or full pearl set; a single pearl accent is fine.
- Dress code: black tie calls for cubic zirconia and shine, a garden wedding for flower shapes and warm gold.
- Dress colour: gold with green, burgundy, pink and black; silver with blue, grey and icy tones.
- Hair: wearing it up? Choose drop earrings or huggies with a small charm.
- Winter wedding: warm gold, a coloured stone and earrings that show above your wrap or scarf.
Ceremony in the afternoon, party until late? Start understated and add one sparkling piece for the evening.
The golden rule: shine without upstaging the bride
A wedding is the couple's day, and your jewelry can reflect that: polished and festive, but never bigger or whiter than the bride's. Choose one piece that stands out, usually your earrings, as they frame your face in every photo. Keep your necklace, bracelet and ring deliberately quiet around it.
| Do | Better not |
|---|---|
| One statement piece, for example earrings with a cubic zirconia drop | Three eye-catching pieces at once |
| Sparkle from cubic zirconia or gold that suits the dress code | A full white or pearl set: that one is for the bride |
| Mixing gold and silver, as long as it looks intentional (here is how) | Jangling stacks of bracelets during the ceremony |
| Pieces you can comfortably wear all day | Wearing new earrings for the first time on the day: try them for an evening beforehand |
By dress code: how much sparkle?
If the invitation mentions a dress code, you instantly know how much sparkle is welcome. If it doesn't, look at the venue and the time of day: an evening reception in a ballroom is more formal than a lunch in an orchard.
| Dress code | What works | For example |
|---|---|---|
| Black tie or formal | Cubic zirconia drops or statement earrings, a tennis bracelet, one ring | Sam, Jasmijn |
| Cocktail attire | Huggies with a cubic zirconia drop, a fine pendant necklace | Cathie, Monique |
| Garden or boho wedding | Flower shapes, organic gold, one pearl accent | Harper, Lenna |
| Church or formal ceremony | Understated sparkle: studs or small huggies, a bracelet that doesn't jingle | Nikki, Avélie |
| Destination or beach | Light hoops and pieces that can handle water and sunscreen | Edith |
Going to a black-tie wedding? You will find more ideas for sparkle in our guide jewelry for a gala dress.
What colour is your dress? Choosing gold or silver
The colour of your dress decides more than you might think whether gold or silver looks best. Warm and deep shades look richer with gold; cool tones and icy pastels get a fresh, clean look with silver. Want an accent colour? Let a small stone pick up the colour of your dress.
| Dress colour | Metal | Accent |
|---|---|---|
| Emerald or bottle green | Gold | An emerald green stone, like Gemma |
| Burgundy, red or rust | Gold | Warm gold or a red stone, like Florence |
| Navy, cobalt or ice blue | Silver for sleek, gold for warm contrast | Clear cubic zirconia |
| Pink, lilac or lavender | Gold or silver | A lilac accent, like Marlene |
| Sage, pastel or cream | Gold | Soft, organic shapes |
| Black | Gold for warmth, silver for sleek | Cubic zirconia for sparkle |
| Print or sequins | Whatever stands out least | Small studs, nothing else |
Not sure about your skin tone? Take the quick test in gold or silver: which suits me best. Complete sets for every dress are in which jewelry with which dress.
Neckline and hair: where does your statement go?
Your neckline and your hairstyle decide where your statement piece shines brightest. A V-neck or open neckline suits a fine pendant that ends just above the point. With a high neck, halter or strapless dress, shift the focus to your ears. Our guide which necklace for which neckline gives the right length for every neckline.
Wearing your hair up? Then your ears and neck are completely on show: the perfect moment for drop earrings or huggies with a charm. With your hair down, go a little bolder or let a necklace do the work. More hairstyle tips in the best earrings for an updo.
From ceremony to party: one look, two settings
A wedding often runs from an afternoon ceremony to a party late into the evening. Start understated with huggies or studs and a fine necklace, then step it up for dinner: switch to drop earrings or slip on a tennis bracelet. Your look grows with the day, without having to change.
Good to know: Lundholm jewelry is made of stainless steel and is waterproof, so rain during the photo shoot or a busy dance floor is no problem. It is hypoallergenic, too, which is nice for a long day. And as heat and dancing can make your fingers swell a little, an adjustable ring like the Luce stays comfortable.
Winter weddings and weddings around the holidays
Weddings in November, December or on New Year's Eve are more and more popular, and they call for slightly warmer jewelry. Velvet, satin and deep colours like burgundy, bottle green and midnight blue come alive with warm gold. A coloured stone, such as a red cubic zirconia or an emerald green accent, adds festive glow without looking like Christmas straight away.
Think about what you wear on top, too. With long sleeves a bracelet disappears, so choose earrings and a ring instead. Wearing a wrap, scarf or roll-neck? Then your earrings are your statement. And at a New Year's Eve wedding, silver and plenty of sparkle are welcome: see jewelry for New Year's Eve.
Shop the look
Kärlek – love in warm gold
Open hearts in your ears, a heart necklace with toggle clasp and a bracelet with two linked hearts. Romantic without being sweet, and in warm gold just right for a winter wedding.
- Nanna heart necklace with toggle clasp
- Lovisa open heart studs
- Evie bracelet with two linked hearts
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- WaterproofStainless steel can handle rain, sweat and a full dance floor.
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Frequently asked questions about wedding guest jewelry
What jewelry should you wear as a wedding guest?
Choose one statement piece, usually earrings with a cubic zirconia drop or sparkly huggies, and keep your necklace, bracelet and ring quiet. Match gold or silver to the colour of your dress and the amount of sparkle to the dress code. Leave the full white or pearl set to the bride.
Should I wear gold or silver to a wedding?
Gold flatters warm and deep colours like green, burgundy, pink and black. Silver looks fresh and sleek with blue, grey and icy pastels. Mixing is fine too, as long as it looks intentional.
Can a wedding guest wear pearls?
Yes, a single pearl accent works well, such as hoops with a pearl or a pearl pendant. A full pearl set with a light dress can look bridal, so leave that to the bride. Note that pearl-look jewelry is not waterproof, so keep it away from rain and perfume.
Which earrings should you wear to a wedding?
Huggies with a cubic zirconia drop are the safest choice: festive, comfortable and lovely in photos. Black tie or an evening reception suits longer cubic zirconia drops, a garden wedding golden flower shapes. Wearing your hair up? Then you can go a little bigger.
What jewelry should you wear to a winter wedding?
Warm gold with velvet and deep colours, with a coloured stone as an accent. With long sleeves, choose earrings and a ring instead of a bracelet; with a wrap, scarf or roll-neck, your earrings are the statement. At a New Year's Eve wedding, silver and plenty of sparkle are welcome.
How much jewelry should a wedding guest wear?
A good rule of thumb is one statement plus two quiet pieces, for example eye-catching earrings with a fine bracelet and one ring. If you wear a pendant necklace, keep your earrings small.
What jewelry suits a garden or beach wedding?
A garden wedding suits flower shapes, organic gold and a pearl accent. For a beach or destination wedding, choose light hoops in waterproof stainless steel, so sun, sea and sunscreen are no problem.
How quickly will my jewelry arrive?
Order before 3 pm (CET) on a working day and we ship the same day. Shipping costs and delivery times per country are on our shipping page. Every piece comes in a luxury gift box.
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